Plan B

Have you ever found yourself clinging onto a plan or idea that is no longer feasible, simply because it was the plan

Reflecting on the past month, I have come to understand that relinquishing unattainable plans is essential in creating space for new opportunities.

Our family had been eagerly planning a girls' weekend for quite some time, envisioning a much-needed and enjoyable time together. Everything seemed to be falling into place - the venue was secured, t-shirts were being printed, menus were meticulously organized, and even the entertainment was all lined up. However, fate threw us a curveball. Suddenly, our chosen location became the epicenter of a looming hurricane, with the possibility of an evacuation or power outage. It felt disheartening, to say the least.

Rather than completely abandoning our plans, as we had done in a similar situation the previous year, we swiftly embraced the need for a plan B. Within a few days, we rearranged and restructured everything, crafting a weekend filled with joy and laughter - just as we had initially intended. Had we clung stubbornly to the unattainable plan, we would have missed out on the marvelous alternatives that existed right in our own backyards. The entire weekend could have been jeopardized, leaving us to return to our individual lives, void of the unforgettable memories we created.

It is important to have plans and aspirations in our lives. However, when circumstances render them unachievable, do we simply resign ourselves and walk away, or do we muster the courage to let go and embrace alternative possibilities? The latter not only opens our minds and hearts to new experiences but also grants us the opportunity to turn a potentially disappointing situation into an extraordinary one. There is great strength in adapting and embracing change, for sometimes the unexpected paths we traverse lead to the most unexpected joys.

What are you currently holding onto a little too tightly that could be released so you can find your Plan B?